| Many people in life would like to gain more | | | | decided I needed a big change in attitude and |
| confidence or to increase their self esteem. | | | | started to read books about life and about |
| In this article, I give free tips on how to | | | | positive thinking etc. |
| do this. I myself have managed to change my | | | | |
| whole life by implementing the advice given. | | | | These were the things I had to take on board: |
| I hope it also proves beneficial for you. | | | | |
| | | | It is not important what other people think |
| I am Stephen Hill from England. I had many | | | | of you, it is what you think that counts |
| issues as I grew up from a child, through the | | | | |
| teenage years, and finally to adulthood which | | | | You need to start to like yourself |
| had a damaging affect on my confidence | | | | |
| levels. These included: | | | | There are various things about your person, |
| | | | you do not like but which you can not change. |
| A bald patch on my head | | | | You therefore have to start accepting these |
| | | | things and realising that maybe there are |
| A speech impediment known as a stutter | | | | other people in life who are more unfortunate |
| | | | than you. |
| A weight problem, I was basically too fat | | | | |
| | | | You need to have respect for yourself |
| I am quite short at five foot four | | | | |
| | | | Do not accept second best in life |
| Certain people I met would be quite nasty and | | | | |
| would try to make fun of me. They would | | | | Be happy |
| succeed as I would be very hurt from their | | | | |
| comments, even though I tried to never show | | | | I tried hard to implement this advice and |
| it. | | | | even though it was not easy to change, I knew |
| | | | I had to. I basically live life to the full |
| These people were making my life a misery and | | | | now and try not to worry about anything |
| by the age of twenty-two I had had enough. I | | | | trivial. |